I was just reading my scriptures the other day when I found this passage of the calling of the twelve disciples in the Americas –
And it came to pass that on the morrow, when the multitude was gathered together, behold, Nephi and his brother whom he had raised from the dead, whose name was Timothy, and also his son, whose name was Jonas, and also Mathoni, and Mathonihah, his brother, and Kumen, and Kumenonhi, and Jeremiah, and Shemnon, and Jonas, and Zedekiah, and Isaiah—now these were the names of the disciples whom Jesus had chosen—and it came to pass that they went forth and stood in the midst of the multitude (3 Nephi 19:4).
And it occurred to me that this was the Savior himself choosing brothers and sons into the calling. He wasn’t worried about nepotism or being “fair”. Was I surprised? He did the same thing when He called His twelve at Jerusalem. Peter and Andrew were brothers as were James and John (see Matthew 10: 1-4). He did it with Moses, Aaron, and Miriam. Called Nephi and Lehi (both the father and son and then, years later, the brothers). David was strengthened by his friendship with Jonathan. Ruth and Naomi. The Savior went often to pray to His Father.
Why might He allow close ties into the apostleship? Might they need to strengthen each other for the difficult days ahead? Might there be some truth to strong righteous familial lines? Do we need good and righteous friends to strengthen us?
I know that there are a lot of people who get upset because of close ties in callings. Some people have left the Church because fathers and sons, or cousins, or friends, or close colleagues have been called to work together. They leave because they think that there couldn’t possibly be inspiration at work. That it’s all a bunch of nepotism and cronyism in the leadership of the Church.
Maybe, instead of thinking there is “something fishy going on” we should take some time to ask Father if the callings were inspired. Then we can ask Him how we can better sustain our leaders. And finally we should look around and find those friends and family members that strengthen us in righteousness and cling to them.
Who has the Lord sent for you? Who is He asking you to uphold?
Don’t be surprised if you are together for a purpose, a mission of righteousness.
Father in Heaven understands that righteous people need righteous people. (See, Friends, in the Strength of Youth Pamphlet.) Please remember, as you see people all around you leaving the strength of the Gospel, their Covenants, and the Savior that there are five wise virgins as well as five foolish. We are looking for the five wise. We will stand with the five wise who take the Spirit to be their guide (see Doc. & Cov. 45: 56-57) and we will say to the five without oil – “go to them that sell … quickly!” But don’t worry, there are still five wise who also think and act as you. There are many who still believe. And if you find yourself alone, ask Father to raise up friends for you, as He has promised.
Yes, men and women who turn their lives over to God will discover that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities, comfort their souls, raise up friends, and pour out peace. Whoever will lose his life in the service of God will find eternal life (President Ezra Taft Benson, Jesus Christ – Gifts and Expectations, December 1988).